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Passing as Male for FTMs / Height as a passing factor
« on: July 05, 2017, 03:46:22 pm »
I stand at a staggering 5 feet tall and while this would not be so much a passing issue if I weren't pre-T, I feel it gives me away more, along with certain feminine features. I wear a lot of boots and maintain straight posture, and being Hispanic it's common to be around 5'4"-5'7", but alas.. I got the shorter (pun intended) end of the stick.
While it's not something I can change even with T, I've considered investing in shoe lifts, and was curious if anyone here has done the same or had the same concern at any time with regards to passing.

With regards to menswear, finding more formal stuff that fits and maintains a masculine shape is a real ****, though I don't have particularly large hips. Casual wear isn't as much of an issue, but does anyone know any good menswear brands that carry smaller sizes? I hate having to resort to wearing women's suits with every fiber of my being, and suit jackets are harder to tailor than pants.

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Coming Out For FTMs / Coming out in the workplace (is it worth it)
« on: July 03, 2017, 08:52:56 am »
Alrighty boys, here's my dilemma:
I work at a theme park in SATX and with that, I have a very large number of coworkers and interact with people from all walks of life. Everyone at work calls me by a sorta androgynous nickname and I'm only out to a tiny handful of people because I'm pre-T.
I've been working there for about 4-5 months and I leave for school out in Boston in August, yet the social dysphoria and the "sir-I-mean-ma'am-sorry"s are pretty devastating and the situation just sucks a barrel of dongs.
Do ya'll think it's worth it to come out at work to my circle of co-workers and presenting more fully as male, or do you think it could be potentially dangerous? I've witnessed homophobia and sexism and all that jazz in customers so I'm very nervous bout it.

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